Archive for March, 2009

Canadian Tax Season - Tip For Brides

Wednesday, March 18th, 2009

Can you hear him? Can you hear the taxman? Below are a few things brides/grooms (past and present) should make note of.

For those Canadians who were married in 2008 and made a charitable donation in 2008 in lieu of wedding favours/bomboniers, these may be able to go towards your 2008 taxes. Why do I say maybe? Make sure they are indeed acceptable/registered taxable charities.
Canadians: Do a search on your charity.

Donations must be made by December 31st to be claimed against your income for the current year. However, you do not have to claim all of the donations you made this year on your current-year return. You can carry forward any donations you do not claim in the current year and claim them on your return for any of the next five years. You can only claim donations once.

For those Canadian brides/grooms who have decided to donate to a charity, check which charity is registered so you can take advantage of this tax break. Remember, the “Human Fund” is not considered a registered charity :)

Lastly, if you were married in 2008, you are now required to submit taxes as a couple. “Regardless of when you were married, if on Dec 31, 2008 you were “married” the government considers you married for the entire year for tax purposes”. Source, my accountant.

Disclaimer: I am not qualified to provide tax advice. Please refer to your personal accountant and/or government sources for valid tax recommendations. If I have stated anything that is non-factual, please email me and I will update this post with accurate information.

Recommended sites:

Canada Revenue Agency

Internal Revenue Agency

Canadian Tax Blog

Authored by Hot Pink Petticoat

That sparkle in your step separates you from everyone else – your wedding should be no different. A Hot Pink Petticoat smoothly weaves your personality, charm and style with our proven creativity, organization and experience. Whether you need complete planning for a weekend-long bash or day-of assistance for an intimate reception, our Toronto-based team has you covered. Best of all, A Hot Pink Petticoat puts couples at ease – our clients don’t worry about their wedding day – they enjoy it!

Dealing with Wedding Vendors

Tuesday, March 17th, 2009

It is important to keep in mind that this is YOUR wedding day. Just because a photographer wants you to take pictures at a certain time or a caterer tries to tell you that you “must” serve this, remember that you are in charge. Listen to these experts, but decide for yourself.

Most photographers, for example, will work with you to take many of the key photos before the wedding, so that you don’t have to miss your entire reception due to hours of picture-taking.

What you want to eat may not be the “in” thing for this month, but you know your family and friends, and you know what they will enjoy, and ENJOYMENT is the reason to eat something.

When it comes to choosing your dress, you know what you feel comfortable in. While you want to look marvelous, don’t choose something that pinches your stomach or is so large that you have to have your bridesmaids carry the skirt down the aisle. You’re going to be in this dress for hours. Look good, but not at the cost of feeling good.

You hire wedding planners, florists, caterers, photographers and even officiants because of their expertise, but only YOU are an expert on YOU! Remember: YOUR day, YOUR way!

Authored by Sara Wallace - owner/officiant of Personalized Weddings.

She has nearly a decade in the wedding business, writing and performing customized wedding ceremonies.

“Why Don’t All Wedding Videographers Cost the Same?”

Monday, March 16th, 2009

Professional wedding videographers can range in price from $500 to over $5,000. What gives? As long as they’re professionally trained, properly equipped and experienced, why the drastic difference in price?

First of all, it’s important to understand that videographers (this goes for photographers and other artists too), assign a value to their work based on their time, effort, equipment, expertise, and a whole lot of factors that can vary from artist to artist, depending on their approach and demand for their product.

That said here are a couple of factors for you, the engaged couple, to consider when picking a wedding videographer. Rather than making a decision based solely on price, this information will hopefully help you compare “apples to apples” and cut costs only where you really want to cut costs, and spend where your money is being put to good use, according to your priorities.

Filmic versus Documentary

The terms, “filmic” and “documentary” get thrown around a lot, and can mean different things to different people. Often times, a videographer won’t strictly belong to one category or the other. If you’re not sure where a certain videographer fits in, just ask to see a sample of a complete wedding they have shot and edited… then decide if you like it. Then, who cares what it’s called? If you like it, you like it.

Usually, a “filmic” look implies that a video has been shot widescreen or 16:9 (with the growing popularity of widescreen TVs, most videographers shoot widescreen these days anyway), with saturated colours, and some dramatic slow motion effects. It can also mean very stable moving shots created with the help of cranes or jib arms, steadicam apparatus, etc.

The advantages to going with a filmic videographer, is that you literally get a chance to star in your own professionally shot movie. You will be beautifully lit, and captured from the right angles, and only the best, most glamorous shots will make the final cut. You may never look better!

The drawback, of course, is the cost. It takes a lot of people to put a production like this together, not to mention a lot of high end equipment. And finally, there is editing time: for a truly filmic experience, several hours in an editing suite is required to synch up footage from multiple cameras, mix sound and music, create transition effects and titles, etc.

Another drawback, depending on your point of view, is it is not an ideal setup for the camera-shy. You will be surrounded by a crew, lights, and equipment. You will likely be aware of the cameras. You may occasionally have to wait for the cameras to get in place or re-enact for the cameras if necessary.

A “documentary” approach implies that your video is shot with less bulky equipment, and you might only get one or two cameramen with this approach.

The drawback of a documentary approach is it’s going to have a grittier look than the filmic approach. How gritty? Again, this is going to vary from shooter to shooter, so ask to see a sample DVD to come to your own conclusion.

The major advantage of a documentary approach is that because the equipment is lighter, the shooters have more flexibility, so they can move and capture spontaneous moments as they happen naturally. The approach is less obtrusive, and when done correctly, you shouldn’t feel the cameras around you a whole lot. The cost for a documentary approach should be less: the equipment isn’t as high end or cumbersome and you can get away with less people on set. How smooth the final DVD looks depends on the amount of time allocated to editing, and this can vary from production house to production house.

Editing versus Raw

When it comes to videography, don’t make the common mistake of thinking you are paying for just one day of service. A lot of prep time goes into any production, and after the shoot, as much as 50 or 60 hours might go into editing and refining your footage. Or not. It depends on the production company. So ask what your videographer puts into their editing process, and expect to pay accordingly for their time and efforts.

Your videographer might simply offer the raw (unedited) footage; in which case, a tape or hard drive to DVD transfer and some packaging is all that is required after the shoot. This is by far the cheapest option when scouting for video packages, but it is important that your expectations for this option are realistic.

There is a lot of software out there that can enable anyone to edit their own footage, but even if an amateur has the time, patience, and creativity to finish their own video, a professional editor is likely going to see more potential in the same batch of raw footage. If you don’t plan on editing your own footage and just want to leave it unedited, understand that everything is going to be left in, audio levels may be inconsistent, and without the benefit of chapters you won’t be able to skip to precise points of interest.

Your videographer might offer light editing; a “clean-up,” if you will, where some of the rougher, darker, uneventful footage is taken out, and dissolves are put into to soften the transitions between scenes. DVD chapters might be added. Some music might be added. A light edit will cost more than no edit (obviously), but it will give you a nicer finished product that is more entertaining to watch.

Of course, if you really want to dazzle your friends and family, you might opt for a full-on edit: which includes effects, titling, colour-correction, evening out of audio levels, montages where video is edited to music, etc. This edit takes the most time and so it will cost more.

Other factors to take into consideration: are you able to screen the first cut and have input on the final product (will your editor re-cut?). Does the editor upload your video to a website so you can proof your edit and share it with friends and family? How many copies of the finished product do you get? All these perks take more time and resources, so they will add to the cost of your wedding video.

Single Camera versus Multi Camera

Most wedding video companies will offer either one or two cameras with their packages. Some higher end companies offer more than 2 cameras.

The more cameras you have, the more angles (close-ups, etc.) and coverage you’ll have, and the more dynamic an edited finished product you’ll end up with. Obviously, more cameras mean more people and more equipment, so higher costs.

The fewer cameras you have, the less coverage you’ll get, the less angles you’ll have to edit between, but it will definitely be less costly and also less obtrusive.

Another thing to consider: adding a camera means adding several more hours of footage, which means even more hours in the edit suite. See how it all quickly adds up?

Ready for your close-up?

Hopefully, this article has shed some light on the costs and time and expertise involved with putting together a wedding production, so as to demystify the various packages and price points out there.

Bottom line, there is no “right” or “wrong” way to produce a wedding video, because we all – vendors and clients alike – have our different sets of priorities. Decide what is important to you, and budget accordingly. A wedding video is a tremendous keepsake of your special day; so choose wisely.

Authored by Nishi Dias from Night Day Productions.
She owns and runs Night Day Productions, a small collective of videographers and photographers who work on weddings, corporate events and creative projects.

Why Do I Need a Save-the-Date Card?

Sunday, March 15th, 2009

Save The Date cards can be an excellent and affordable way to inform or remind others of your upcoming special day. You may have many expected guests from out of town who need time to make travel arrangements, or you may have scheduled your event during the holiday season or during a time when others typically have a lot of social engagements. If you are having a weekend wedding or successive events, you will want to give your guests plenty of advance notice. Either way, Save The Date cards can help ensure that others are able to attend your event, or simply serve as a reminder for your more absent-minded guests!

Save The Date cards can be simple, listing only your names and the date and location of the event. However, your Save The Date cards could also include important messages about special aspects of your event that guests may need to prepare for. For example, indicating an adults-only event on your Save The Date card allows parents to make prior arrangements so that no one has to miss your special day.

When planning a destination wedding, Save The Date cards can offer necessary travel information. There is no standard form for Save The Date cards, they can be as elegant and formal, or whimsical and informal as you like! In addition, many companies will print Save-the-Date cards that coordinate with your custom invitations or theme.

So, if you are looking for an easy way to announce your special event, Save The Date cards are the way to go.

Authored by CK Rogers for Dependable Printing.

Please visit Dependable Printing for a great selection of wedding invitations , Save the Date cards, holiday party invitations, shower invitations, party invitations and much more.

What is a Groom’s Cakes

Saturday, March 14th, 2009

Have you ever wondered what EXACTLY is a Groom’s Cake?

I’ve had alot of Brides ask me that very question, so I thought I’d briefly explain what it is and how it originated.

Groom’s Cakes are part fun, part tradition, and something chosen to express the groom’s personality or hobby, and therefore, you have a huge allowance to be as creative as you want!

Groom’s cakes are a unique, smaller cake that is definitely not the traditional, beautiful white wedding cake with a plastic bride and groom on top.

Believe it or not, Groom’s cakes were originally made of fruit cake, and born of tradition from somewhere in the (U.S.) South.

According to legend & superstition, if a single woman took home a slice of the groom’s cake and slept with it under her pillow that night, she would dream of the man that she will marry and she’d know by morning who she would be spending the rest of her life with.

For some reasons, Weddings always seem to be about the bride. But what about the groom? It’s his big day,too! Groom’s cakes are a great way for a new wife to give attention to her man and show off his fun side!

Regardless of whether or not the superstition holds any truth, the tradition is coming back into style…and nowadays, it’s all in the name of fun, and there are so many designs and themes to choose from!

These “expressive” cakes can be served at the rehearsal dinner or at the wedding reception, right along side the tiered wedding cake, and can be the favorite flavor of the grooms.

Everyone’s wedding is unique to each individual couple, so make yours YOUR OWN, and follow your heart for your special day!

Authored by “Top it Off” Cake Toppers in Black Hills of Rapid City, SD.

We offer unique Cake Toppers for those Bridal Couples looking for that special Cake Top!

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Kauai Destination Weddings - Affordable!

Saturday, March 14th, 2009

When the economy is hurting, one business that still goes on is the business of weddings. People will still get married.

That is not to say that people will spend like they used to. They will be looking for a way to have a perfect wedding as always, but to do it while spending a little less. Budget conscious brides are looking to save money on their weddings and get the most out of their dollar.

A Kauai destination wedding is a great alternative to a large wedding at home. Combine your honeymoon with your wedding. Have a smaller, intimate event that people will talk about for years to come. Other’s have an excuse to travel and combine their vacations with celebrating your wedding day.

It never speaks of being affordable, and people will never have to know that is a deciding reason for having a Kauai wedding. They will just assume you want to be married on Kauai. And why wouldn’t you? Kauai is an affordable way to have the wedding of your dreams, but it does not scream in any way, mean or manner that you are on a budget.

Check it out - you will be surprised!

Authored by Angela Miranda - Director of Events of Hawaii Event Planners.

Angela was born and raised on the island of Kauai and has been planning weddings and events for 7 years for countless destination weddings.  She is happy to provide services that allow her to share her island home with many wonderful people.  She is an active member of the Kauai Wedding Professionals Association and member of the Hawaii Visitors Bureau.

Angela would love to assist you with planning your Kauai destination wedding.  Please give her a call or visit our web-site at http://www.hieventplanners.com/

Wedding Photography - Color or Black and White?

Thursday, March 12th, 2009

Every photographer has his own style of shooting to capture memorable images, but what makes these images truly great? While the content of the image itself plays a large role, whether an image is presented in color or black and white can also have a significant impact on the photograph.

If you were to look at an image captured in color, then look at that same image as black and white, chances are that it would speak differently to you, with an entirely different message. In fact, the whole mood of an image can be changed by the decision of how to show it. Images full of emotion might be better presented in black and white, whether its a tearful bride receiving that last kiss from dad as they walk down the aisle or the excitement of being announced as husband and wife for the first time. Without color, the background elements and environmental distractions are eliminated and the emotion of the scene becomes clearer.

A photograph of a couple walking on the beach, or frolicking in a field of sunflowers would probably present better in color, as the color is very much part of the story. In these situations, color helps to narrate the event by offering a sense of place and conjuring up a feeling of what it would be like to be there. It is likely that the portrait of a flower girl in her new dress would have more appeal to family when it is presented in color because there is an emotional attachment or characteristic such as the youthfulness of the little girl, and its a representation of how beautiful she looked that day. However, the image of the same little girl in the arms of her daddy, exhausted from dancing and the excitement of the day, may better tell the story in black and white.

Typically, the overall the choice of black and white vs. color is subjective and based on the content of the image and the story it tells. Often, opting to use color may be the best way to convey subjects and scene better, but if the image lacks impact in color, you might find a stronger message in black and white. The choice can be tough, but if you look closely, one version will clearly present itself as the best representation to you.

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Authored by Mark Gardner from Mark Gardner Photography

Mark Gardner is the owner and principal photographer at Mark Gardner Photography based in Maryland serving the entire mid atlantic region as well as Metropolitan areas worldwide.

Eco-friendly Wedding Dresses

Wednesday, March 11th, 2009

Living in a new environmentally conscious age, we try to incorporate being “green” in every part of our life. How can you create a “green” wedding? If you have not currently pursued green alternatives, the idea of introducing “green” elements on your special day might be scary. Fear not for going green is not only easy but it is elegant and affordable.

Wedding Dress

An eco-friendly wedding dress should be made of sustainable materials. There are many choices for wedding dress fabrics which include cotton, peace silk, hemp, bamboo, lyocell, soy and milk. Various styles can be found on the Internet and various wedding publications.


by Threadhead Creations

The above dress is made from Floral Hemp and Silk, with 100% silk lining. This dress features a low cut sweetheart neckline that plunges to the empire waistline. The bodice is gathered under the bust for a flattering fit. The elegant low cut back is accented with a charmeuse drape. The skirt portion of this dress is fitted through the hips then flares at the hem, ending in a sweep train. Fully Lined. Back zipper.

Designers like Adele Wechsler and Jessica Iverson with her Terra Amore line have combined couture with eco-friendly materials. Jessica Iverson’s line consist of earth friendly silk fabrics. They are vegan friendly and uses eco-friendly dyes. 100% sweatshop free. The company also plants a tree for every purchase made.


Adele Wechsler Hello Africa

Adele Wechsler Sunray

Reduce, Reuse, Recycle

You can also make an eco-friendly decision to purchase a gently used gown instead of buying a new one. You can visit local consignment stores and organizations, vintage boutiques that can also be found online. Choosing to wear your mother’s or grandmother’s gown is another eco-friendly decision.

What makes a dress eco-friendly?

Choosing an eco-friendly wedding dress consist of finding a dress that is made from natural and organic fibers that are not animal byproducts. Dress that has been made using eco-friendly options, such as eco-friendly dyes. A dress that uses recycled fabrics will qualify as an eco-friendly dress. Or simply your dress can be reused.

Sustainable, recycled and reused are characteristics to look for when shopping for a “green” wedding dress.

Be Inspired to make earth friendly decisions!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Authored By Kattia Gordon

Kattia Gordon is the owner of Aleximani Events, an event planning service in the NY/Long Island area. She has a passion for planning events and enjoys helping brides make their dreams come true. She is a mom of three and is married for 14 years.

New feature: Position photo elements using our wedding website builder

Tuesday, March 10th, 2009

We released a small but useful feature today. You can now left/right/center the position of Photo and Text & Photo elements. To use this feature, log in, hover over a Photo or Text & Photo element and click on the gear image in the top right corner (beside the delete button). A drop down will appear allowing you to change the position of the photo.

We also changed our invite page, you can now archive old invites so they don’t clutter the page anymore. Many users had been requesting that feature.

Happy site building!

Paul

- The MomentVille Team

5 Tips for Finding Wedding Favours That Fit your Budget

Monday, March 9th, 2009

Finding the perfect wedding favors for your wedding, and within your budget is possible - but a little planning before you start can be an enormous help. We’ve put together a list of things to consider when you are looking for the wedding favors that fit you best.

1 – DO decide on a theme. There are millions of ideas out there, and it is easy to get overwhelmed. Deciding on a color, type, or theme before getting too far into your search can greatly help the “but those look nice too” syndrome that many brides are known for. Stay on target!

2 – DON’T Shop at dollar stores! These places will often gouge you on price, or not deal in the type of quantities you will require. Thrifty stores tend to also have a reputation of mismatching crucial colors, late orders, or worse yet, the wrong items entirely! (Plus, they will often look cheap)

3 – DON’T Shop at wedding stores! These places will overcharge, and mark up seemingly innocuously priced items via sneaky add-ons, “reservation prices” or refuse bulk discounts. Unless you have an unlimited budget, and a wedding planner, these should be your last resort.

4 – DO Use the Internet. There are many sites out there that are easy to search through, can be filtered by colors, type, and budget. While some will specialize in variety, others will specialize in finding you the best price. Regardless of your choice of site, they will save you countless hours of plodding through catalogue after catalogue of uninteresting, over-expensive wedding catalogues, or trudging through the crowded isles of never-ending dollar stores.

5 – DON’T settle for the first “close enough” favor you stumble upon. While there is something to be said for decisiveness, a good website will allow you to bookmark or email yourself a reminder link, while providing useful, similar item options to ensure you get the right favor for you.

Authored by Renee Banin of Fortune Wedding Favours

Renee Banin is the owner of http://www.fortuneweddingfavors.com which provides high quality custom wedding fortune cookies and picture cookies.  Many of her items are as low as .99 cents each.  Her cookies have been seen on such shows as The Food Network and Good Morning America.  Fortune Wedding Favors is a sister site of http://www.Promiseweddingfavors.com and http://www.treasureweddingfavors.com